Saturday, June 2, 2012

Goodbye, Sarah

Today a lovely, spirited young woman named Sarah Thomas died, and many, many people are going to miss her, myself included. She was an exercise rider for Jonathan Sheppard's Ashwell Stables, and not long ago she wrote to me, asking if I could encourage drivers on Street Road to have some consideration for the horses and riders and slow the heck down. I did, and our local policeman went out and issued some speeding tickets, and she sent me a message with about 10 exclamation points, saying how grateful she was.
Sarah suffered a fatal head injury when the horse she was riding spooked for some unknown reason and she came off (yes, she was wearing a helmet and flak jacket), her father, Victor, told me. She was rushed to Christiana Hospital by ambulance and stayed conscious long enough for her parents to talk to her, but then suffered a massive stroke. After that, there was no hope of recovery.
Sarah was so vital and enthusiastic that it's hard to believe she is gone. Her friends have posted photos on her Facebook page showing her riding along Lamborntown Road in the snow, playing polo, watching the World Series at the Whip, celebrating at weddings and parties.
My deepest sympathy and prayers to her family, and here's hoping her spirit is in Houyhnhnm Land with her beloved horses. Her father told me that thanks to Sarah's organ donations, as many as seventy people will live longer and better lives, which I think is a beautiful and fitting legacy.
The family is planning a gathering at their farm this summer to celebrate her life. 
(Thank you to Emily Rodger Barber for the photograph. "I love that photo," her father said.)

8 comments:

  1. Beautifully written and thank you. Sarah will be missed by us ALL at Ashwell! The hardest part of today was the realization that she won't be back with us. She leaves behind so many wonderful memories and I hope she is having fun with her horses and Foxxy, her dog, up above.
    With love, Amy Lippincott

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  2. Amy, I am honored by your praise. Thank you. Best thoughts and prayers to all of her friends and family. Her father was soooo gracious to talk to me today.

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  3. I did not know Sarah, but my Mom, Cheryl Yeoman, worked at Ashwell and told us about her and her accident. This article is a wonderful testament to her and brought a tear to my eye. How wonderful to know that 70 people will be helped through her organ donation.

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  4. I did not now Sarah but read her story.She seemed like a wonderful person.Her story brought tears to my eyes.My condolences to her family,hopefully she's now with people she once loved and the animals she loved.

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  5. My deepest condolences to Sarah's loved ones, and may you all find comfort in knowing she left doing what she loved most. While I never met Sarah, as a life long horseman I recognize from this article that she was a responsible, caring horsewoman. My prayers, and tears, are filled with hopes she is now in Heaven, and happier than she's ever been, along with hopes that her loved ones cope with this sudden loss. Bob Rose

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  6. I got to know Sarah in high school. Sarah and I were acquaintances, but whenever speaking to her, she always had a way of making you feel like an old friend. I have had the privilege of hanging out with Sarah from time to time. This is why I feel that I can honestly say that Sarah was probably one of the most genuinely goodhearted people that I ever got to know. Sarah was soft-spoken, sweet, and sincere. My condolences not just to the parents, family, and friends, but also to anyone who had not yet gotten a chance to meet such a wonderful woman. The world is truly, truly at a loss, and I am so sorry for that.

    If there is any way to take a positive in such a tragedy, it would be that she died doing what she loved. Sarah, you are now what we all always knew you were: a good soul.

    Rest in peace, Sarah

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  7. I knew her when she was a kid taking her first riding lessons....Glad she grew into such a nice person..so sorry to all that knew her...

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  8. Such a tragedy and my sincere sympathy to Sarah's family, Jonathan and all that knew her.
    Please take some confort that she passed doing what she loved.
    There is a wonderful poem, written by the late Paul Mellon. I think a very it is a fitting tribute to Sarah.

    The first verse only:

    "The day my final race is run
    And win or lose, the sinking sun
    Tells me it's time to quit the track
    And gracefully hang up my tack,
    I'll thank the Lord the life I've led
    Was always near a thoroughbred."

    My very sincere condolences. Jon, you've always been both a good horseman and gentleman. As we both know, these animals take our breath away and break our hearts. I'm sure Sarah knew she was working with one of the best. I am so very sorry.

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